What is it like to go through an Introverted Alpha program? 

Our motto is, “Gentle and pleasant is the most effective.” Thank goodness that’s true! It’s very convenient for all of us. The way it works is you’ll start with personal reflection and inner work in Phase 1, and then transition into the practical skills of going out and connecting with women in Phase 2, and finally getting numbers and going on great dates in Phase 3.

What is the average age of your clients?

While most of our clients are in their twenties and thirties, we work with men who are in their forties, fifties, and sixties as well. Because the program is fully customizable, we are able to address the unique situations faced at various ages and stages of life.

What if I’ve been married / divorced?

Divorce can bring you a clearer sense of what you’re looking for in your next relationship, and at the same time, it’s normal for your dating skills to feel a little rusty. Many clients post-divorce have found great value in working with us.

What if I haven’t dated much or at all? 

Some of our guys start the program thinking, “I don’t even really want to date right now. I just want to become more confident around women, more comfortable in my own skin.” So that’s what we do. Sometimes the guys that focus on the inner work most are the ones that have the most fun! And afterwards, it comes together smoothly for them because of all that they’ve learned. 

What if I’m quite religious? 

We love working with guys from all kinds of backgrounds. From quite religious and devout to atheist to anywhere in between, we are excited to work with you. We can help you meet women in your church or synagogue or mosque groups as well as know how/when to bring up your beliefs with women you meet elsewhere. There’s nothing in our program that goes against any religious beliefs or practices. We fully support you and will work with you in your unique situation to build the life you imagine for yourself, with your deepest, most special values at the center.  

What if I’m gay? 

We are excited to work with you too! For every part of yourself, our coaches and our whole methodology is open-arms. We embrace your deepest, truest self so we can bring that out more in the way that you would most like for yourself. Simply let your coach know where you’re at with the points above or with anything that feels relevant, and we’ll enthusiastically meet you there and discuss however you’d like. 

The guys in the client interviews seem very well-spoken. If I’m on the quieter side, will this still work for me? 

These men sound amazing, right? They sound like they’ve always been like that. I’m telling you right now that they weren’t. You’re hearing the end. During the coaching process, there are usually one or two calls where the coach is like, “Oh, my goodness. This is a new man! His voice is different. He’s different.” That maturation and development is a normal part of each client’s process, in his own time.

What do you consider a successful client? 

Success means that you are happy with the progress you made in the program, that you’ve celebrated your small wins along the way. Yes, the dates and new level of interest from others is quite exciting, but our clients tell us that the very best part of the experience is feeling more like yourself than ever before. 

What are the qualities and practices that makes a client successful? 

We look for (1) a positive and willing outlook which makes everything run more smoothly, and (2) engaging in the process consistently over the course of the program. Clients who do those two things consistently do quite well in the programs.